Join Date: Dec 2016
Location: The Frozen North
Re: New here, Dead fiancees parents are trying to take my son
First; My heart goes out to you sir. I cannot fathom having a tragedy of this monumental nature befall myself and my child. You are a rock, sir. You are doing everything that you can in these awful circumstances.
Simply put, your in-laws are idiots. Use every resource at your fingertips to keep them from your son. Surround him with your family, love, and affection. These people have some screwed up ideas on parenting and grandparenting. If I were in their shoes, I would have immediately volunteered to help you and my grandchild, not show up on the doorstep and demand custody. Instead of tearing down, I would be building my relationship with my son in law and my grandchild.
You are doing right, and for what it is worth, we are in your corner.
I am afraid that if it were me, I would have a desperately hard time reconciling with these obviously entitled and foolish individuals. They may have been your fiance's parents, but they are sorely lacking in tact and humanity. The very idea of trying to take a child from his father is nauseating.