Re: New here, Dead fiancees parents are trying to take my son
I'm sorry, giddiot, but I disagree. You cannot negotiate with people who have threatened to take you to court to take custody of your child... nor would I ever advise someone to do so. Until tensions have settled, I would not trust that they wouldn't take off with him. Which is why I, as well as others, have suggested supervised visits.
Sure, CPS may get involved. But if they see no evidence of the child being mistreated by his dad, and not being neglected, it will be an open and shut case.
You, like Diana, are speaking from the POV of a grandparent. But, I would be willing to bet that, had your own parents or in-laws tried to pull what OP has faced, you would have reacted the same way many of us have stated... cutting them off or supervised visits only.
At this point, negotiations are not advisable... unless you consider supervision a good suggestion to negotiate... as in 1 day a week, supervised vs more than 1 day a week supervised. Regardless, supervised is the only thing I would suggest for now.
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