Re: Communication and Trust Problems
You didn't state how long you've been dating but obviously, you both have some ironing out to do before getting married. Discussing all finances is one of them. Who has what, what each person earns, how are savings obtained/what % of the paycheck goes into savings & retirement, spending habits, etc. Perhaps you guys need to get to know each other a little better.
You could always come up with a list of things you should ask: do you have an STD, have you ever been arrested, are you exclusive in our relationship, are you an alcoholic, have you ever used drugs? (a little sarcasm here)
It's ridiculous to have to ask about things in order for her to tell you. I'd be concerned too. Have you noticed any other passive aggressive behavior?
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