Originally Posted by Miss Independent View Post
What do you mean?
Op is overreacting.
I don't believe he is overreacting at all.
So, let's say you and your husband talked at length about taking a trip that you both wanted to go on. You kept trying to arrange it, but he kept finding various reasons he couldn't go: not enough vacation time, too much work, not enough money, etc. Then, without even discussing it with you, he arranges to go with a buddy of his instead. In fact he tells you to "get over it" or calls you "controlling" if you even try to discuss how you feel about it.
That's how you think a marriage should be? If so, I'm glad I'm not married to someone like you!
The ONLY way this would be acceptable in my marriage is if she or I was offered some free tickets or a free trip to go with a friend. Even then, I would immediately tell my wife of the offer and ask her for her opinion. I'd consider how she may feel about it and might turn the trip down anyway just so she doesn't feel left out.
Then there's the "getting drunk with her single friend" thing too? Sorry, this whole deal is rotten to the core. If my wife did this, I wouldn't divorce her but you can be dang sure she wouldn't be invited on the cruise I'd be about to book to the Bahamas for when she got back from New Orleans!
BTW, I lived in NO for a couple of years and it's a great place to get laid. Especially for a couple of drunk women, married or not.
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