Re: Vacation separately - sign we are in trouble?
Tell your wife that this is bull****. Of course she needs permission from you just as you need permission from her for taking holidays and trips with other people. Especially if it is a place you wanted to go to with her. And she knows it. And she needs to check with you just as you need to with her every step of the way in a marriage when it involves quality time together (away from work etc). And the final thing is the manipulation and, lets face it, lying! This is not OK in any relationship leave alone a marriage.
You need to really think (as does she) about whether this marriage is for you or her. She could easily be doing what she is doing without being married to you so why stay married ?
This is my quest, to follow that star
No matter how hopeless, no matter how far
To fight for the right, without question or pause
To be willing to march into Hell, for a Heavenly cause
Last edited by MattMatt; 04-10-2017 at 05:51 PM.