Join Date: Apr 2017
Location: Houston,Texas (Native Houstonian)
Wife Is Cold And Emotionally Detached
Good Afternoon. I am new on this site and still struggling to find where I fit here. This subject of "Wife is Cold and Emotional Detached", seems to fit in with what I have been experiencing for the past 25 or a 29-year marriage. I have constantly been looking for "The light at end of tunnel", or "Things will be better just around the corner". I don't believe so.
I accidently found this site when I ran across an article from someone on this site describing the symptoms of, BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DIS-ORDER; a virtual , 100% description of my wife and her sudden and abusive personality changes from "Sweetheart to Verbally-Abusive Woman within just a few minutes (sometimes even in just a few seconds) on almost a daily basis.
This started about 3-4 years after we were married. Avoiding ANY sort of sexual approaches and activity, then the "Stop touching me" and "Stop groping me". Then she became "Little Miss Independent" telling me to stop telling her what to do (Yet SHE is pretty good at controlling others herself), and now after 29yrs.of marriage and multiple visits to marriage counselors to have ME straighten'd out, we seem to be pretty much in a loose "Room-Mate" relationship. I pretty much fix my own meals, wash my own clothes, do the grocery shopping, pay the bills (In spite of her Financial Infidelity attitude), etc. .
Now, I wonder, at 78, where do I go from here?