Re: I love my wife so much but
Reconnect with your wife. You both are emotionally/physically disconnected at this moment. Find out what her needs are, affection, communication, help around the house, maybe take her out, buy her flowers, ect.. You guys are living as roommates, but I think most marriages go through this at one point or another. We did and I woke up and realized my hubby has always met and was meeting my needs and I wasn't meeting his. My husband is always so kind and does everything for me! It was time I repay him. Now we are reconnected and life is good! We spend time every night snuggling with each other, holding hands, talking. He actively listens to me when I talk to him, looks me in the eyes and responds at the right time. I wish my hubby would of talked to me instead of me trying to figure out why we were living as roommates for a while. He would go downstairs on his computer while I stayed upstairs on my iPod touch. That has all changed now. The sex is fabulous now too! However, my drive kicked in and that seems to help.
Find out how to reconnect. Do nice things for her without her asking. There is always marriage counseling too. Your wife has no idea how important sex and affection are to you unless you tell her. Communication is so important. However, your wife may have gone through menopause. I've not reached that point, but I've read once it hits, your libido goes down the drain. I'm not looking forward to those years.
Good luck! You may need marriage counseling to figure out how to reconnect with your wife. She may not even realize what is going on and how you feel. You might want to have a gentle talk with her about your needs, maybe you both can meet in the middle somewhere.
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