A friend is getting remarried soon - I suppose early 40's? Idk. Looks pretty young and is in decent shape.
Met him on the train recently and he said it's wild out there. Lots of bat sh*t crazy women but lots of sex. He said he was getting bjs on the street corner even. So he had his fun but met an amazing women after he roamed a bit.
So I guess be prepared to go with the flow and if the women just want to bone be prepared for that too. That's what he said - NSA in many cases - the women wanted to hit it and quit it.
Either way I think you win - NSA sex or a good woman looking for a relationship.
So your limited time might be just fine for many on OLD. Reach out and see what you pull back
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Wow, what was he doing to get that kinda crazy sex and BJ's on the corner, lol.
Was he really good-looking or perhaps he's got his player skills down!
That actually sounds very appealing to me right now. I'm 39, so I guess I'm in that age range? Funny thing thing is, I kinda skipped that whole "roaming" phase when I was in my teens, 20s'. In fact, I didn't really date, have sex or any relationships with women until I met my XW.
I'll admit, I'm not a super-handsome or tall. I'm about average in both regards. I probably need a new wardrobe. But I've also heard if you're really funny, charming and you've got good social skills (or money) women don't care as much about that.
I guess I just need a good starting point.
Also, I did decide to ask this girl out. She works in a different shop, so I've never met her.
We've lots of playful joking/bantering the past few days via Skype (where my suave skills are much more refined--I feel like I'm great when it comes to IM/Skype or txt, but my face to face, RL social skills need work). She's been telling me I brighten her day, laughing at my jokes, and using a decent amount of emoticons.
Below is the conversation, I think/hope she's interested in at least meeting up for a day and having fun.
After we shared some stories about how stressful/difficult some companies are to work with, I said...
"Hey, at least weekends' coming up...Do you have weekends off?"
She responded "Yeah, for now I do...no plans, I'm just happy to have a few days off without being haunted by ringing phones... What about you? any plans? When she said that, it sounded like an open invitation to ask her out! Without me asking if she had plans, she volunteered the information that she did not, and even asked if I did!
I responded, "Nothing set in stone, but I was thinking about checking out some mountains or local wildlife areas, I really love the scenery around here"
she responded by recommending MT diablo, and mentioned it had lots of cool views and hikes.
Right on queue, I said "I was thinking, We should totally hang out. I would like to meet you and have lunch at the very least
..and then, if you want to show me some of the sights of the city, especially outdoor stuff
I would be totally up for that"
her: "yeah totally! im not too familiar with the outdoors stuff in san rafael but i know of some in the bay area!!"
Me: awesome! what's your number. I'll text you later and we'll figure something fun to do together
her: i actually dont have a phone at the moment!! it broke yesterday and i cracked the screen really bad! plus im switching service so when i get my new number ill give it to you!
After that, I asked her when she would be getting her new phone and why she was switching. She said "Hopefully tomorrow and its because SPRINT SUCKS!"
My only concern is the broken phone...but I think she's still interested in meeting me. I just know a lot of times girls use the "broken phone" excuse, but I'm thinking this could be legit.
What do you guys think?