Re: Confused about husbands F buddy 😬
This is absurd. You let your husband get his needs met outside of the relationship (physical and emotional), and now you're concerned that he no longer needs you to get his needs met? Is that even a question? I'm confused where you're confused.
Look, this whole "open marriage" thing is fundamentally incompatible with the institution of marriage. Why even be married, if you're just going to sleep around with other people anyway? It makes zero sense, and defies reason.
If you didn't care sufficiently for your husband to demand that you have him all to yourself, you probably shouldn't be with him at all, and he doesn't seem to mind not being with you.
Here's an idea: go through an amicable divorce, and both of you see other people. If you don't like the "other people" sufficiently to stay committed to them, don't get married. Problem solved.
I don't condone "open marriages", and think they are a really really bad idea. Your post epitomizes why.