Join Date: Jan 2016
Location: Southern USA, but longtime NYC boy prior to our move.
Re: Confused about husbands F buddy 😬
I think you have to accept the possibility that your husband is lying and find a way to have an affair right under your nose. I had a FB and invited my wife to join us and everything we did was only with the three of us. We went out and vacationed as a threesoem and had sex as a threesome. We lived in the same house. We did have one on one sex after the threesome for some quality making love time. The threesomes tended to be purely about sexual pleasure. My wife specifically avoided doing anything with her girlfriend other than go shopping, because she said it would feel like cheating. I never took our girlfriend ( she was more than a FB. She was our lover.) out on a date without my wife. I did have another girlfriend that I spent time with and took weekend trips with but I never told my wife that we did not have sex. I cannot spend a day with a woman and just talk. There will be sex involved. Stop being naive and learn that cheaters never tell the truth. There is no good to be had from that.
Many prefer to drown in a pool of their own morality rather than seek the safety of a different morality when the choice is monogamy or your marriage.