Re: Confused about husbands F buddy 😬
Those weird feelings ARE jealousy, with good reason. This woman is bonding with your husband on a sexual and emotional level. She is a threat to your marriage. You are being replaced, even if he doesn't physically leave the marriage.
What you've agreed to is an open marriage. You now want boundaries in this open marriage and since what you've already agreed to is a violation of the boundaries in a faithful marriage, I don't see how this is going to be possible for you.
I too recommend you tell your husband how you're feeling and that you no longer agree to an open marriage. Once he hears it hurts you, it should stop. If it doesn't, then you have lost your husband already.