Join Date: Nov 2013
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Re: Wife too close to my brother
After reading your post, a few things bother me that are obviously bothering you as well. I guess the obvious of time spent, cuddling and hugging is dangerous at best. The next problem is the emotional connection your wife has with your brother, but this still isn't the worst of your problems. The fact your brother came to you means he knows their relationship is wrong. The problem I see, is that you gave your brother the green light to continue inappropriate behavior even though your brother knows it is wrong. He will even tell your wife this and then your wife will see this as disrespect by you. I would say that you need to tell your wife that she have boundaries after two weeks of surveillance. But after the surveillance you'll be back here saying it's more then just cuddling.
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