Join Date: Jan 2016
Location: Southern USA, but longtime NYC boy prior to our move.
Re: Computer passwords
My position is that there should not be anything to hide from each other in a marriage. If there is, that is a problem. If you can share your naked sweating bodies, dirtiest sex secrets and do all those messy things in bed, making yourself vulnerable to each other, you can share your passwords. My wife can see my porn, posts here and in more specific sex forums, as well as anything else on my iPhone and iPad. We have no secrets and that has worked well for us for the last 44 years. So many posts here start off with, "I found some texts or emails on my spouse's phone or computer." You should never give your spouse a reason to be suspicious of you. That leads to distrust and jealousy. Never good things to make a marriage last long.
Many prefer to drown in a pool of their own morality rather than seek the safety of a different morality when the choice is monogamy or your marriage.
Last edited by Vinnydee; 04-15-2017 at 04:28 PM.