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post #31 of 84 (permalink) Old 04-16-2017, 10:28 AM
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You act like he deserves better. He deserves to be with this women forever.
Lol, no he is exactly where he put himself and he still wants more. It's sad for the little girl.


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They hardly ever have sex and always used a condom. Based on the date of conception there is no doubt.
If they "always" use a condom, then her boyfriend must be wondering how this could have happened.

As for the "date of conception", you really have no idea what date that was. And you don't really know if she's telling the truth.

I'd ask her how her boyfriend feels about her pregnancy. Is he happy? Suspicious? I mean, if they weren't having sex around the 'date of conception', what did she tell HIM?

Like others have said, this woman has lied to her boyfriend numerous times. Don't you think she's capable of lying to you, too?
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It might not be her husbands...and it might not be yours. Hate to point that out. But why not? No boundaries going on anyways.
I thought this also... if she is able to cheat with you, she is quite possible able to cheat on you.

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They hardly ever have sex and always used a condom. Based on the date of conception there is no doubt.


You're young, ain't ya?

Did this story that it's supposedly 'yours' come from her, the SAME liar you claim didn't even tell you she was living with her boyfriend until months AFTER you started seeing her? Did it come from the SAME lying cheater whose been living with her boyfriend and letting him support her and be a father to her kid while she's been sneaking out to be with you every day?

That liar?

How many times are you going to fall for her lies?

Just don't be surprised when one day a new gullible young guy like yourself starts posting here, talking about how he's "secretly in love with some woman whose stuck living with some schmuck she can't stand and she wants to leave so we can be together" .... and blah blah blah.

Well OP, that "schmuck" he'll be referring to is you.

She's an opportunist constantly on the hunt for a better deal. You may be that better deal right now, but don't be surprised down the road when she dumps you for the next 'better deal' she finds.

If you're SMART, you'll get DNA testing BEFORE she gives birth. If you don't and instead blindly sign that birth certificate as the father,, then you'd be a complete fool.
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I make more than him, actually.
Not surprised.

As I said, she's always looking for the better deal.

That's some piece of work you chose to align yourself with.
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So you are ok with a woman who lied and cheated on her partner who had been good enough to take on another mans child? Also lied you you that she was in a relationship for months?
You cant possible know that this child is yours, it could easily be his or another mans.
It was completely irresponsible of you to have had sex with her, how would you feel if a man had sex with your partner? As for having sex with no protection, what can I say.

Get a dna test done as soon as you are able, if the baby is yours then you will have to support that child for 18 years, by then I expect she will have had several more children with several more men. I feel for this poor child I really do.
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If they "always" use a condom, then her boyfriend must be wondering how this could have happened.

As for the "date of conception", you really have no idea what date that was. And you don't really know if she's telling the truth.

I'd ask her how her boyfriend feels about her pregnancy. Is he happy? Suspicious? I mean, if they weren't having sex around the 'date of conception', what did she tell HIM?

Like others have said, this woman has lied to her boyfriend numerous times. Don't you think she's capable of lying to you, too?
She has already lied to him, for months.
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Re: The baby is mine and he does not know

Some people have brought up some good points.

She said that her bf always use protection and hardly ever have sex, and thus this baby is clearly your baby. Then why is it that her boyfriend does not seem to think this baby is not his baby? Surely he knows that there no way he could have gotten her pregnant.

Either that, or she has been lying to you. And he thinks it's his baby because they are having unprotected sex. And they had that sex around the time that the baby was conceived.

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Think with your logical brain please, you other head is what put you in this mess already.

Logically you know she lied to you before, why would she be honest about you being her baby's daddy now?

She doesn't want to leave the BF because you were just a distraction; he is the one she wants to keep.

The baby is more than likely not yours!

Blow it up and demand a DNA test. That's the only way for all those lies to come front line and center. The truth will be forced to be revealed then.

Stop being a fool for this woman!

You are not protecting your so called child by believing a proven liar. Expose her shenanigans now!

Good things come to those who wait...greater things come to those who get off their a$$ and do anything to make it happen.
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She said that her bf always use protection and hardly ever have sex, and thus this baby is clearly your baby. Then why is it that her boyfriend does not seem to think this baby is not his baby? Surely he knows that there no way he could have gotten her pregnant.
Like I said, people do not get the whole story. Yes, they usually used condoms but on NYE, they were drunk and he didn't. If that had not happened then it would have been impossible to pretend he is the father.

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Like I said, people do not get the whole story. Yes, they usually used condoms but on NYE, they were drunk and he didn't. If that had not happened then it would have been impossible to pretend he is the father.
Ah, so it's completely possible that he's the father of the baby.

So a DNA test is needed.

Her game with you is to pretend that she knows that you are her baby's father. She does not even know who the father of her baby is. She's playing a game with you and with him. Because you can bet your last dollar that she is telling him that he is the father.

Plus, condoms are not 100% effective in preventing pregnancies.

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Maybe it's your baby. Maybe not. Don't rely on what she says. DNA.
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Can we all just pretend that we know it is mine...

I just want to know if I should let them live their happy life without me or if I should tell him.
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Oh, that's what you want?

I think that you need to tell him. If the baby is yours, there is no way you should walk away from your baby.

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Can we all just pretend that we know it is mine...
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Uhh...no.
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