Join Date: Feb 2016
Location: North Coast Nationalist-burg, U.S.A.
Re: The baby is mine and he does not know
You are not thinking this through.
You are not thinking this half-way through
You are not thinking.
This women of yours, is on her second long term romance.
While in this second long term romance she jumps in the sack with you. She "makes sure" she gets pregnant by you. Oh, yeah...she did this.
In this day and age this still happens.
She is bedding two men. What a deal for her. The other dude wears a condom because he does not want to get her pregnant. Duh!
This first ex was abusive....says who?
The second and current lover is not having sex with her often..and uses a condom? Why is that? Why is she not on the birth control? Does she have a STD? Hence, the condom use.
If you shack up with her, or heaven forbid, marry her, how many more men will she develop on the side. I suspect the horny lady needs two. More power to her...less to you.
Oh, I forgot. You are better than the first two chumps and you are good with kids.
Now she has a stable guy who likes kids and loves her. This frees up her mind and her time....to find another side piece.
This women cannot get enough sex. One man is one to few. And when one man is jettisoned, another will bone up in his place.
She does not want to tell her current boyfriend? Why is this? Are you just for sex? He is Plan A....still.
What a Deal! For her...not you.
Sorry. Get the kid DNA checked as others have suggested. Enjoy the child....from another residence. Let some other dude and more other dudes fill the holes in her life.
Enjoy the little girl. Nothing more.
This....This is the nub of the stick that pokes me in the eye when the light of day energizes my optic nerve....SunCMars.... The Allegory of the Cave--> On this, I did a '180' and stepped out.
The Lion in Winter. Invictus..By Will, Shall... Saved from harm by my friends.
Last edited by SunCMars; 04-15-2017 at 07:45 PM.