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Re: My Husband's Best Friend

Originally Posted by manwithnoname View Post
How can she hint anymore than actually coming out and telling him? The husband has to see for himself, since he thinks it is all in her head. I'm sure Chris is testing the waters with her, while being careful when the husband is around.
This is undoubtedly true.
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Or....they both are colluding:

For a threesome.
For couples swapping.

I personally doubt the above.
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More likely, Chris's friendship is very important to DH and he does his best to downplay your concerns. He is avoiding taking action.
Chis has been briefed on your concerns. He may be trying to win you over. He is failing miserably, and does not know how you "take" him because your DH shields your "other" doubts and feelings from him. With respect to you and your feelings, they are murky, silly and unfounded as related to Chris by DH.

Oh, your husband does not agree with your feelings and doubts about Chris.

Your son's outburst to Chris: Chiris may have been sticking his tongue out at you, or giving you a disrespectful look, or goofy look. Children read adults faces a lot better than you think.

Your husband is conflict-avoidant.

He cannot face You or Chris in a strong manner.

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