Hello. I'm new here. I need friends to tell me if how I'm feeling is right or wrong. So, my husband has a brother that he's very close to. They're in their 50s. Hubby's bro has a toxic friend who is a woman-hater, lives with bro and sponges off of him, brainwashes him because bro's wife died 2 yrs ago and bro is also big-hearted and lonely. So, the toxic friend, we'll call him Mooch, has tried to get rid of more than one person close to bro over the past 4 years since he showed up on the scene. Finally, it was my turn. I tried to get along with Mooch because I love my brother-in-law but Mooch had other plans. He started verbally abusing me, calling me things like "fat bi-ch, fat c-nt" and said things like "you need to run around the block a few times." These things were told to me on the phone so when I had a fit and tried to tell my hubby that I didn't want him to go to his bro's anymore, all hell broke loose. Bro was mad, hubby was mad and I was hurt. My son wanted to go kick Mooch's ass but my hubby just wanted to see his bro. So, long story short, Mooch has now come up with "I'm dying of cancer" but there's no proof and now hubby and bro feel sorry for him and I continue to look like the *****. Hubby goes to bro's every single Saturday no matter what and if I try to get him to stay home, he pouts and nitpicks at things. As long as he gets to be around Mooch, whom he now adores just like bro does, then hubby treats me good. But I'm still hurt. I've only told you a few things that Mooch said to me. There's been more but it's never around hubby or bro, even though I've told them everything. I don't feel loved. Help.