Thank you, everyone please read
Wow, I posted on another fourm today, a parenting forum, for my issue I posted here in the parenting area. I cannot believe how rude and insensitive and horrible those people were! I don't know if I can post the name of the forum that I was on or not, so I won't, please, if you want to know, and I can post it, let me know and you can check out the thread.
I JUST WANT TO THANK ALL OF YOU FOR BEING SO KIND, all the time, through all the issues. On this other forum, the moderators gave really crappy advice, and very little of it, and then were completely offended when I didn't just bow to their bad advice, and I even went so far as to ask for more advice, oh no! The thread went terribly hateful. I have very very little posts there, and I'm sure that will be my last visit. It seems that the moderators are worshipped or something, and the more posts you have, the more you're supposed to just take their crappy advice - question them not you foul peasant!
This is pretty much the only forum I visit and post on.
Again, I just want to thank all of you for being so decent and strong and humane and kind and accepting and open minded and non judgmental. It really means more than you could possibly know, unless you've been treated like I just was. Wow.
Sincerely and Lovingly,