Join Date: Dec 2016
Location: The Frozen North
Re: 25th anniversary separate trip
My first response to my wife would be, "Thank you, so very much for respecting me and our marriage. I think I will go out on our 25th anniversary, with my new girlfriend, (insert name here). Enjoy Hawaii, and hopefully, your next husband will make it to 25 years, so that you can respect him just as much."
In short, I'd be absolutely livid. Dream vacation notwithstanding. She wants to go, tell her not to bother coming back.