Join Date: Dec 2016
Location: The Frozen North
Re: 25th anniversary separate trip
I would question her as to why she does not have even a modicum of sentiment over a major milestone. If this is her attitude to the marriage and to you frankly, then there is very little marriage there. I'm sorry but this calls for a confrontation. Hawaii would be wonderful, in fact, I'd get hold of her friend and ask if you could use the property the day after your wife and her leave. You will be entertaining some new girls there. Your wife can have a good look at her replacement.
A really big example, for our 25th we took our first cruise. For our 40th next year, we are renting an apartment in Paris for a week and another in Tuscany for the next week. That is how married people celebrate milestone anniversaries, not flying off to Hawaii with a girlfriend while leaving hubby at home. If she even wants a marriage, this should be written in SHARPIE on her forehead: Anniversaries are FU**ing important. Little getaways ARE NOT!!!!!