Re: Can men tell me what happened here?
What other people have said about this guy sounds plausible to me.
As a woman, regarding sex, if I were dating again, I would want to have sex with the guy I am progressively spending more time with sooner rather than later.
I think too many women get hung up on the thought that men can only use women for sex. When there are a whole lot of things they can use a woman for.
With the guy who did not like giving oral sex, I am convinced that he was looking for a beard. Outside of the bedroom, every body thought he was such a great catch.
Even with my husband, he was avoiding sex with me at one point. I think he was trying to decide between me and his so called friend. Had he dumped me, he could have at least "well, at least I wasn't using you for sex." Even though he was using me, taking up my time and so on for some other reason.