Why did you feel like you have to put up with so much crap from this man. We teach people how to treat us and when you put up with crap, you get crap.
Was he likes this when you were dating or first married, or did he change or were you wearing rose colored glasses?
I have a agree that getting out of this relationship for now would be the best for you and your kids. The 400 dollars a week on pot would be enough alone to end it for me.
Which makes me ask what is a couple with 7 children doing smoking weed anyway? Is there not better things to be doing with your money and time. Perhaps is there maybe some addiction issues in this relationship as well?
I would recommend that you dump your husband, quit smoking weed and get some counselling to help work on yourself. I don't think a decent family man with a good job and good values is smoking 400 dollar worth of weed a week, nor do I think he's probably looking for a woman how will take people's crap and smokes weed herself but I have been known to be wrong.
Don't feel bad about leaving, do what's best for you and your children.
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I have no idea why I put up with this..
Only 4 children lives with us..unfortunate that all 4 are mines.. so of course they have seen the most.
I smoke because it calms me..
I get nervous a lot.
I just do
Yes I plan to quit
I guess it keeps getting worse cause I allowed it.
I spoke with him last week & he told me he would never get a job..THAT WAS IT FOR ME!
HE THROWS it in my face that my children are not his.
Say we are holding him back.
He has said hurtful things to my children
Ive done this before & came back like a fool. trying to save this **** of a marriage
I guess it's because he is so smart.
& I know the potential he really had.
He is just the most selfish persons I have ever met.
He puts me down saying he looks better then me
I'm fat & stupid
He once told me anybody can use me..
I guess that was my sign & I just ignored it
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