Thanks for the replies. I tried to be the "good wife" and be fairly welcoming, but the more I thought about this whole thing, the more it stuck in my craw.
Apparently, that's been your biggest fault for years and has gotten you nothing but continually disrespected and walked all over.
I guess I need to come to terms with the fact that he really doesn't care and is checked out - as you all have said - and just go on. What a waste.
You posted this ^^^ about your husband back in December of 2016.
You also ended the thread saying you were done, done, DONE
I guess you chose to stay with him even though he's completely disengaged from you in every conceivable way and shows you ZERO respect. I'll assume your reasons are still financial.
So Mr. Wonderful, in his never-ending quest to disrespect you and put the screws to you, brought some woman into YOUR home and is treating her like a new girlfriend and taking her out and showing her all the sites. Let me guess - you're
preparing meals for these two fools when they're not out painting the town red, and providing fresh linens for her and anything else she needs during her stay at the KatieBird Suites. I highly doubt your ass-hole husband is doing any of the work when he has YOU to cater to his every need (and apparently, his 'guests' needs now, too).
I guess the day will come when you finally realize just how much of your life you've wasted on this selfish jerk, constantly twisting yourself into a pretzel to please him and hoping to 'win' his love. He's a selfish, self-entitled, self-important, self-absorbed, nasty excuse for a man and you know
this deep down.