Re: Husband or Me?
Normal, healthy, trustworthy couples do not "check up" on each other throughout the normal day.
Yes, someone 'could' be cheating at any given moment, but if they haven't given someone a reason not to trust them, then there is no reason that their partner should check up on them all the time.
Both constant checking up as well as the need to checked up on are signs of insecurity and maladaption.
That being said, mate-guarding does have a role in a relationship and it does make one feel valued and secure to have a partner that is concerned about their well being and safety as well as not wanting other people to screw them.
But like all things in life, it is a matter of degrees. If you are at an adult cocktail party and your partner comes over to join the conversation when you are talking to an attractive member of the opposite sex, that is one thing and it may make you feel appreciated and valued.
But it is whole other realm when you have someone calling you throughout the day and checking the odometer etc when you come home from the grocery store when there has been no history of infidelity.
from what you have described here, IMHO you are the one a little out of kilter here.
This is assuming he is not completely ignoring you and abandoning you in all other areas of your relationship of course.