Originally Posted by Tall Average Guy
A couple off the top of my head:
No discussion of your marriage to members of the opposite sex.
No alone time with them.
No discussion of sex or sexual topics with them.
There is a thread on whether you can stop cheating that includes these types of rules (I think it was that_girl that had a very good list).
And let me add, pack HIS bags and put them at the door. He should be the one who leaves.
Anyone who would put a 'friend' above their spouse, imo, care's less about the spouse.
If it's just a normal friend, no sexual contact, no sexual aything, no touchng of any sort, then I can see your husband making a stand.
But a woman grinding on your husband, calling him crying about her relationshp, flirting while her own husbands back is turned, that jezebel needs to go! And if your husband can't see this, ask him for the keys to the house as he's picking up his bags.
DO NOT play second fiddle to this woman. Either your husband loves you enough to break off contact with her or he doesn't. It really is that simple.