Re: When do friends come before your spouse?
I consistently warn anyone that will listen this time and time again.
Opposite sex "friends" is a big NO. No such thing.
THis thread is a perfect example of the trainwrecks this kind of nonsense can, and will, lead to.
Bad News, don't give up your female friends because your wife "makes you" or is controlling. Of course that would be wrong, your wife is not your mother, and you are not a child.
Give them up because you are a man, and a man takes care of his business.
And a man's business is his wife and his family.
2Sick, your husband is full blown in the affair fog. Cake eating, blame shifting, secrecy, lame excuses, the works. Don't take these signs lightly, and understand it takes a cold cold COLD bucket of water over the head to wake them up from their stupor.
I wish you well.
Decide what to be, and go be it. -Avett Brothers.