01-21-2012, 06:44 PM
Join Date: Jan 2012
| | Re: Husband friends with girl I dont know
Originally Posted by 30Mom
A great deal of people will disagree with me but I don't believe a heterosexual male and heterosexual female can be friends. I believe that a great friend will move out of the way of a marriage. They will never let their needs come before their friends' marriage.
I agree 100%. When my husband and I were first living together he was friends with a woman. She made a few inappropriate comments about him to me, and I drew the line when he took her advice over mine once, in a conversation that was strictly for our family ONLY. He gladly backed away from her, and has had no contact since then. Because I expressed my concerns that she would eventually come between us, and he cared.
mmagkjscott: It does certainly sound like he is up to no good. Be it an emotional affair or physical affair....it is still an affair.
If my husband DENIED what I found in black and white, I would say there is cause for alarm. Especially since in your gut, you had enough of a feeling to go looking for evidence. I would say texting at all hours of the night and e-mailing constantly is something.
I would gather more evidence and then make a conscious plan to split, because it does not look good.