01-23-2012, 04:50 PM
Join Date: Sep 2011
| | Husband going on vacation without me
I'm really worried... He'll be going to see his family and will be in Florida for 2 weeks. Now, this normally wouldn't be such a big deal to me, but I've noticed the last couple of times we went to see his family together, he talked to other girls online and asked them for nude pictures and would flirt with them... Not to mention, there's his one lesbian friend that he used to have a crush on in high school that's over there and he used to try to get her to go out with men so he could go out with her, and she's also told him that if she had to go out with any of her friends, she'd choose my husband, which doesn't seem so very reassuring to me. He also calls her beautiful ALL the time whenever he sees her. So, I'm really not liking this whole idea of him going by himself. I keep thinking, what if he does something worse? On the other hand, I don't want to keep him from his family, either. I just don't know what to do... Two weeks seems like a long time to be away, and I'm pretty sure I'd be worrying my head off the entire time. Should I just try to trust him and just not bring up my worries to him, or should I confront him about my feelings?