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are you in a relationship with the guy you like if you are why would you go on a vacation with the older guy this thread dont make sense

confused0112

well, i kind of explained it. But maybe it is hard to understand for people who are more used to committment?

Anyways, thanks you all for input. Just to update, I just told the older guy that I am not going. I was going back and forward all day long. but then i decided that if i go on vacation while the relationship works out I would feel worse about the loss than if we break up in a few weeks and I miss the vacation. Plus like somone said before I will enjoy it while it is so awesome without ruining it but feelings of guilt about being a liar. And if it doesn't work out I may as well get a last minute deal and just take off by myself somewhere. So again, thanks, I think I did the right thing