no, i was not a virgin. i had partners before her. but i am man. it looks better on a man than a woman.
I'm sorry, I have not read all of these posts... but this right here is ....well... just NOT
OK... I do not feel any man has the moral right to expect anything more from a woman that he has not expected from HIMSELF
. You are dead wrong here and I call BS on such a belief.
but if you all were my shoes today. perhaps you would not say the same. I am truly appreciate it of all the comments
No, not at all, if I was in your shoes, I know I'd be looking at myself in the mirror before judging another .... You've had an AFFAIR on your wife after the vows...YOU BETRAYED her in the worst way, something worthy of divorce....and this was BEFORE you even learned of her past...so in fact you screwed around on your virgin wife (LORDY Be... what the hell does that make YOU!@#$).... this clearly shows your moral compass & integrity as a man....
Learn this ....the fact she has forgiven YOU .... is ...well.... something you didn't deserve at all..... a pure act of Love on her behalf....a forgiveness MOST wives wouldn't even bestow you... so in realitly....you ought to feel at HER mercy and be dancing in the streets she still wants to be with you. Depression... how do you feel she felt for the 1st 16 yrs knowing you would have thrown her out on her ear -not accepting her for who she was, having to hide a peice of her -from her own husband, hell she has had 16 yrs of depression.
I think you can handle what you have been delt here.
NextTimeAround said: Sadly, your wife made the mistake of trying to be someone that she wasn't to try to keep you and it caught up with her. A good lesson for all of us to remember
So that women won't ever feel the need to make up lies like this, they should remember that any guy in this day and age who values virginity is just a piece of **** who likely go screwing around anyway because he constantly needs new *****.
You know what I HATE about threads like this... it gives others THIS idea right here ^^^^ Just because a man may value a virgin does NOT always make him a Hypocrite.... this TROLL clearly WAS a Hypocrite
... as he also slept with women before he married /then ran out & had an affair after the vows, the height of hypocricy here is staggering. No wonder the anger in the replies.
BUt the men who DO save themselves for the love of thier lives ...has every right in this world to desire a woman who feels the same - waiting for her one & only....
Not all men like this = a Peice of Sh** Nor are their reasons for wanting a woman with such values have anything at all to do with insecurities, though I do feel this man has PLENTY....this TROLL that is.
Just wanted to add my 2 cents anyhow.