01-28-2012, 06:10 AM
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Hi everyone, i need some advice as i feel if i talk to my friends about this it could be embarrassing for me and my partner
I love my girlfriend which I've been with for 6 months and i would do anything to keep her happy but recently she has been saying things to upset me and were arguing, I rarely say anything to upset her and if i did i would just think about how she feels and apologise before an argument arises......i just want to be happy so I'm making the efforts to do so by being loving, kind, caring, honest and sending flowers, chocs, holidays and I'm even taking her Cannes for valentines...
heres the prob
1. We were recently watching TV and she said "Look at that mans willy!!" i said id rather not and to keep that to herself, we didn't argue about it but she said whats the problem she don't understand she's joking??
2. My girlfriend is a hairdresser and recently she's decided that she wants to do spray tanning, she recently suggested an idea to me saying that I should give out her business card at my Mens Gym so she can spray tan men??? i said to her that I'm not comfortable with her spraying half to near naked men and she says I'm stupid and she doesn't see a problem, tried talking but just ends up in an argument... If i decided to work with near naked women though with near perfect bodies she wouldn't be happy even though she trusts me....... She says people would laugh at me for having a problem with this..?
3. Me and my girlfriend were recently out with her sister and her boyfriend going for a walk in the park, the sisters boyfriend went for a pee in the bushes and my girlfriend shouted in a joking laddette way ..... "got your willy out!!" everybody went quiet and I said to her that i don't wanna hear stuff like that. She didn't see a problem.
I do trust my girlfriend, i really do , and i want her to be herself around me, but these days I'm finding her quite in sensitive and selfish with these comments that a boyfriend doesn't wanna know, thing is she won't accept that they upset me and she won't see it from my point of view at all and keeps on saying stuff like that...... I've tried talking until i can't talk anymore, tried to be reasonable in every way.. she just says ..... she knows who she is and she don't care.....
should i be cool with this? help