02-02-2009, 03:14 AM
Join Date: Feb 2009
| | Re: trying to work things out
She gave you a time line? Really? She said 1 year or its quits? That is no way to work on things. It is called talking, communicating and expressing how you feel to each other. Her being cold and stand offish is her trying to push you away. So your going to sit around and let her make the decisions? You love her, but the real question does she love you? What do you want? You said you love her, but do you want to be with her while she doesn't even know if she wants you? What you need to do is talk to her. If she is all distant from you continously then well move out, or have her move out. Do something, don't just let her control your life by waiting around to see what she does.
Right now you don't know what the real deep problem is, do you?