02-16-2012, 03:33 PM
Join Date: Aug 2011
| | Re: Facebook Problem with Wife
Big red flags. You should get a keylogger and see if she is up to something like an affair. If you find that it's nothing like that, just confess to her that you snooped because you were suspicious and you don't want to damage your marriage by killing trust so you are being honest in telling her and you want to work out your issues regarding intimacy and secrecy.
Are you a controlling guy? Are yall getting along otherwise? If you don't believe she is cheating on you, could she just be venting about marriage problems that she is perceiving or issues with you that she doesn't want you to see? I would have said talk first and snoop later, but cheaters lie and you won't get the truth unless you do some independent sleuthing if infidelity is the case.
Good Luck. At the least, get her into marriage counseling with you.