Re: Facebook Problem with Wife
Lots of red flags. it is what it looks like!
Play your card right and take a breath. You will be sickened by what you find, so please prepare your self.
Plan for the worst and work your plan. Keep your emotions in check, I will tell you this, when you get the info you need you will react to it in your typical way...Think...your best aproach will be one she least expects. Something that will command respect and make her think twice in what she is about to loose if she continues.
But you have to get the hard fact to play this hardball tactic.
Do not beg her to stop her emotional affair, but inform her you will not control her, she can do what she thinks is best for *her * marriage, but you will control in what you will tolorate and you can control who you want to be with.
Once you see the unbelievable, you will be an emotional wreck. Do not show her how weak you really feel, but show a perception of confidence that will make her think twice in what she wants out of this marriage and a perception of strength that will make her second guess your willingnes to move on with or without her if she continues.
Hopefully she will beg *you* to keep her around and when she tells you she is sorry and will doing anything for you to keep her, well then turn off her internet......her response to that remark will tell you how remorseful she really is.