Re: Should I move in with bf or not?
He changed his mind because he is a control freak, and you put your foot down and made a decision on your own which took control power away from him. He's now re-configuring the game plan to accommodate his need for control. If you agree to his plan, you give him back his power.
Back off the move-in plan and even consider leaving this dude, you're looking at a very bad future with him. Ignore these warnings at your own peril, because controlling could just be the beginning...
You say he treats you better than any other man you've been with, but that doesn't make him a good man. It could be you just have really low standards that you would accept someone controlling in your life.