04-16-2012, 10:40 PM
Join Date: Feb 2012
| | Re: When the Pain Turns to Anger
Originally Posted by chapparal
If this is correctly stated, I think your MC is off base.
What did MC say about her wanting to not have sex a awhile back? MC a man or woman?
Since we have been having sex, it really hasn't come up. The problem is that my recollections of things are different then my wifes. What I see (and know) as me being curious, to her is an interrogation. It comes out that way in counceling and when I defend myself, I am "defensive". The MC then councels based on my wifes interpretations and I come out with a list of stuff to work on.
I sound bitter, I know. I'm really not. I have learned some things so theres that but at the same time, there is not that much left for me to do. My wife at that point will be left with no choice but to do her share and at the very least will be on the hot seat to explain why she hasn't.
MC is a women BTW.