My husband doesn't think I'm sexy anymore
We've only been married a year, but are both older (I'm 46 and he is 50), and over the last two years, I sold my property, horse and other livestock, and moved to the suburbs into his home. I basically changed my whole lifestyle, which was my call of course. However, during the last two years, I've also put on 25 pounds, and am struggling with getting it off, going up and down in weight.
Over the last couple of months, our perfect sex life has rapidly dwindled down to a couple times a month, and I can tell he doesn't want to look at my naked body.
I made the mistake of asking him if my weight gain was the reason he isn't very interested in sex anymore, and he said yes, mostly, but also my lack of motivation in getting fit. He said men are visual and appearance is so critical to attraction.
Even though I asked, when he said this, I felt so angry, disillusioned, ashamed, sad, and bitter.
How do I overcome this situation? I am focusing on my fitness and weight with a vengeance now, but I still feel angry and do not want him to touch me.