Hi, Im a 27 year old woman.. who got married 3.5 years ago.
Everything was great, but lately....
It feels like i dont know him anymore. He yells at me so easily, always makes excuses for the smallest of things and theres no ownership when he does something wrong. We discuss and argue about it a thousand times and he says he'll change but always goes back to old ways. I ask him to talk about things... tell me.. instead of bottling things up... but its still the same.
I really dont know what to do... i feel so lost.
We disconnected our cable recently and he loves his sport, but has become obsessed with checking up scores and news on his phone. So much so that he hardly speaks to me when we get home plus it interferes with our time.
He embarrassed me infront of my family while watching a game, and when i confronted him twice about it he continued to do it.
To make matters worst he said if we have a child and the child supports the opposing team he likes - he will abort the baby
(INFRONT OF MY FAMILY AND FRIENDS).
I was so hurt by this - why should an innocent unborn child be brought into such arguments. Isnt there a limit?
How do you stay in a marriage that never gets better? How do you stay in a marriage were everything seems like a one sided effort?