02-12-2009, 11:16 AM
Join Date: Oct 2008
| | "I don't worry about you, I worry about everyone else..." is what she tells me.
I was just wondering what some of you think about this. My ex who I was really good friends with even after we broke up wrote me a email asking me how i'm doing, and telling me she is very happy and everything and I just replied everything is good and left it at that and never heard from her again. I stopped being friends with her after I got together with my current girlfriend because I realized it would just not work out being friends with her.
The morning I got the email from her, I told my current girlfriend that I got a email from her and explained to her exactly what it said and she said," Oh okay, cool." And never talked about it again, but 2 weeks later now and she texts me this morning saying," I have to say I haven't been sleeping very well, i've been thinking a lot about (the ex). Has she been talking to you?" I said, "No not at all. She only wrote me that email I told you about 2 weeks ago and never heard from her since. I told you about that email at the time so you would know (her ex always kept secrets from her and i'm the opposite; i'm open and honest about everything and have nothing to hide).
Then I said to her," If you trusted me, you would not have to worry about others. (My Ex) is very happy and and just wanted to see how I was doing and she does not want me back and I don't want her either. Then my girlfriend responds," I do trust you but if she's happy then shy is she writing you? I'm not mad or upset, I just wanted to let you know it was on my mind." (Which got me thinking that I told her a while ago, so it must have been on her mind for a while now and I ask her every once in a while, "What's on your mind?" and she would always say nothing._
But anyway, I told her that I don't have the answer as to why she messaged me if she's happy, but it's not something you need to worry about because I never think of her.
I know truthfully it isn't a big deal because she isn't mad or upset, but I just wanted to get some thoughts from the people here about this. I mean, I feel like I am with the girl I could marry and I just want to be 100% sure that it's the right move before I take the plunge.
Last edited by psnuser12; 02-12-2009 at 11:30 AM.