03-07-2012, 09:36 PM
Join Date: Mar 2012
| | am i really what she says i am?
I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years now, We have been living together for two. We have had a pretty solid relationship up until this point.
Recently, She has been snapping at any little thing and will constantly "call me out" on all my flaws. This confuses me quite a bit, Especially when i am nothing like what she calls me out on. For example - she will check my facebook, email, and phone messages over two dozen times a day but she claims i am obsessive and controlling.
To be honest, I love this girl and i wanted to ask her to marry me this year but now i dont. She is nothing like the amazing girl she use to be and it hurts and scares me. Does anyone know why she is acting like this? My sister thought she might be pregnant but we have never been intimate, something my sister never knew btw. My girlfriend comes from a christian family so while we may have oral sex and other similar things, she wants to remain a virgin until she (we, hopefully) are married.
My sister also said she could be bipolar, Which could be true but i am not 100% sure. To be honest, I think its some sort of personal reflecting sort of thing. She knows that she has flaws and by projecting her flaws onto me, Its sort of a way of addressing them without actually having to address them. IDK what do you think?