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Old 03-14-2012, 12:18 AM   #1 (permalink)
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i had some physical contact with my ex..but never did vaginal or anal intercourse..i did these stuffs thrice..but now i met my future hubby..his name is Ram..he told me the meaning of "LOVE"...I am in love with him..I want to give my everything to him..as he surely deserves it..i am mad for him..But i feel guilty about my past..i want to know whether i am virgin or not...

note : i just had oral sex for around 30 seconds once with my bastard ex..
am i considered virgin? i want to give my whole thing to my hubby..
Fortunately he trusts me..and i am posting this question through his mail id...please help me out
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Old 03-14-2012, 01:13 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Yes, you're a virgin so long as you haven't had vaginal intercourse.
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Yes you are.
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Old 03-14-2012, 07:00 AM   #4 (permalink)
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your making a big over nothing.

love your new husband and put this stress behind you.
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Old 03-14-2012, 07:12 AM   #5 (permalink)
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nope.

once you break the boundaries of anything sexual, i dont feel you are virgin any longer.
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Old 03-14-2012, 07:50 AM   #6 (permalink)
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I definitely consider you a virgin ...where the meaning comes from, correct me if I am wrong , is likely the OLD Testament in the Bible-

Read #2 on this Book page >> Sex Texts from the Bible -Blood on the sheets

I did alot worse than you before I married, me & my then bf/ now husband touched each other intimately for near 7 yrs before we married ..... I also did a little something with a neighbor Boy before I met him, I don't really regret any of these things. My boundary was intercourse, isn't this what makes you "one" ....(penis inside vagina)... also what has the power to create "new life".

And still when I married.... there was a little blood I recall... we had so much trouble with my hymen, it is seriously laughable. I hope you won't go through that experience! I always considered myself a Virgin - at least physically. Though some would still judge that my purity was tainted and I was not a virgin "spiritually".... people like the last poster here Know_buddy . I often wonder what their sexual histories consisted of..

To each their own judgement. We both wore White on our Wedding day...and we still had something beautiful to share where no other has been......we considered it a sacred thing.....even if it was terribly frustrating for a time. My husband couldn't get it in!.... after 3 months of this frustration, my obgyn wanted to give me a hymenectomy surgery....but surprise surprise, I was pregnant !

So I conceived before my husband fully penetrated me, we used to joke our 1st son was the immaculate conception. It was the craziest thing ever - I doubt you'll have that much trouble !

I think your husband should be very proud of you for waiting .... in this day & age, it is near unheard of. You & he should have something very very very special.
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Yes, you are for sure a virgin. Good for you!

Even if you weren't, you still could love your SO/husband and give him your all.
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Old 03-14-2012, 10:32 AM   #8 (permalink)
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Labels.

A woman who seeks out strangers at the bars just so she can suck off a new one in the back alley every week is a virgin.

A girl who had 3 minutes of vaginal sex in her parents bed with the pimply faced next door neighbor at 17 is not.



I'll pass on the virgin in that case.

I'll pass on the labels as well.
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And still when I married.... there was a little blood I recall... we had so much trouble with my hymen, it is seriously laughable. I hope you won't go through that experience! I always considered myself a Virgin - at least physically. Though some would still judge that my purity was tainted and I was not a virgin "spiritually".... people like the last poster here Know_buddy . I often wonder what their sexual histories consisted of..

To each their own judgement.
come on now SA.
im not judging you or anybody else.
its just my opinion.
just because im right doesnt make anyone else bad for their opinions either.

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nope.

once you break the boundaries of anything sexual, i dont feel you are virgin any longer.
be logical..as kissing is also a sexual act..
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Do YOU think you're a virgin? What is the definition of 'virgin' to you? A virgin Caesar has no alcohol. A virgin forest has never been logged.
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Do YOU think you're a virgin? What is the definition of 'virgin' to you? A virgin Caesar has no alcohol. A virgin forest has never been logged.
yes i am a virgin..and i am honoured as it is for my hubby
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thanks a lot to all members...I am happy that I saved my V for my hubby..
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be logical..as kissing is also a sexual act..
get real.
if your kissing on a sex organ, then yes, it is.
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get real.
if your kissing on a sex organ, then yes, it is.
So if I kissed your brain we'd be having sex??
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