GAsoccerman

Well after your last post, I would say it's neither, it's a competitve issue. You want to be the hottest babe in the room, your man's eyes SHOULD be focussed on YOu becuase...simply, you want to Win, matter of fact, you want every man's eyes on you or at least glance at you, and say, "wow"

This is natural, this is why women dress up when they go out, to "look good"

It's part of our make up as humans, to lure the other sex, when you feel he is being "lured" by others, your competive Nature kicks in.

again something you need to control, guys have the same issue, when they see men look at their girlfriends or wives, we need to "win" we want our "wives" attention not for her to look at that young blonde stud over there at the bar and smile...LOL

It's a game of courtship.

T.O.girl

thanks GA, you helping me understand myself a little bit...because come to think about it, i think the competition thing might be also part of the problem (a small part, but there nonetheless)

But i'm realizing that it's more of respect thing because come to think about it, i also do get offended when i'm the one receiving that attention...for example, i was with my man at a restaurant recently, and this guy with another girl was starring at me, smilling and winking at me the whole time. i felt unconfortable and sorry for the girlfriend because of the way he was disrespecting her (she wasn't too happy either). And most importantly i was very upset because not only did i feel he was disrespectin his gf but he was also disrespecting my boyfriend because he did notice it too and became upset and uncomfortable and was asking me if i knew the guy...

So how do i get over getting offended so easily???? How do i develop a thick skin??? How do i stop being so sensitive???