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We are having Financial problems, she had taken car loans and had put herself in quite some Debt. In the country we live in, if you have a bounced check and a case has been files, you go straight to jail, until the money sue is Paid!
So, she informed me that this guy has offered her around $25,000 to close 2 debts, if I dont sort the money out, she would probably sleep with this guy for the money....
I have 2 kids... and no way I can have her go to jail or something like that..
So, she informed me that this guy has offered her around $25,000 to close 2 debts, if I dont sort the money out, she would probably sleep with this guy for the money....
I have 2 kids... and no way I can have her go to jail or something like that..
wow 25k just for sex...that's really something.
Unfortunately in these situations you have to choose which situation you hate less: her sleeping with the guy or her in jail. If it were me I would choose jail because one, i would feel my H would be taking responsibility for what he created and two, I would NEVER get over my H sleeping with someone else (even for that kind of money).
ummmmmmm, is she serious? She is willing to prostitute to pay a debt? Are you sure it is just car loans? Take a loan against your house and get it paid off and get rid of her.
I dont believe one pays 25 grand for that. I am not sure where you come in. Are you asking if you should pay it or send her to jail or let the other man pay it.
Well its not exactly easy to get rid of her when we have 2 beautiful kids, who are happy to see us together.. and the last thing I would ever want to see is the mother of my kids going to jail.. Well, atleast she is being honest and telling me what she would have to do, and said she would tell me when if things are not sorted, so I would be able to take a discision on how to go forward.
ummmmmmm, is she serious? She is willing to prostitute to pay a debt? Are you sure it is just car loans? Take a loan against your house and get it paid off and get rid of her.
More like, let her have her indecent proposal then get rid of her. You'll be $12,500 richer.
Yup, an Arab country. Its guilty until proven innocent. And in this country, if there is a olice case and thry catch you or knowck on your door, thats it.. Prison until you pay. You have people with no Joke in jail for just $500 to $5000, no out of jail card until you pay.
Yup, an Arab country. Its guilty until proven innocent. And in this country, if there is a olice case and thry catch you or knowck on your door, thats it.. Prison until you pay. You have people with no Joke in jail for just $500 to $5000, no out of jail card until you pay.
Could your wife get stoned for being an adulteress?
We are having Financial problems, she had taken car loans and had put herself in quite some Debt. In the country we live in, if you have a bounced check and a case has been files, you go straight to jail, until the money sue is Paid!
So, she informed me that this guy has offered her around $25,000 to close 2 debts, if I dont sort the money out, she would probably sleep with this guy for the money....
I have 2 kids... and no way I can have her go to jail or something like that..
Don't they use a security interest for auto loans in your country? Can she just let them repossess, to avoid the debt or to reduce it at least?
Also, can she transfer the cars to you, you take on the debt, and then if someone is jailed it would be you? Just thinking outside the box on this one.
Yup, an Arab country. Its guilty until proven innocent. And in this country, if there is a olice case and thry catch you or knowck on your door, thats it.. Prison until you pay. You have people with no Joke in jail for just $500 to $5000, no out of jail card until you pay.
Hi Gooch sorry you are here I was under the impression that she would also be disrespecting the family and not to mention yourself or I am I wrong ?? It sounds like you dont care if she has sex with another man or are just accepting it so she would not have to go to jail ?? I would consider adding another spouse maybe one who is more frugal in my opinion
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