02-24-2009, 10:03 AM
Join Date: Feb 2009
| | advice and help needed
Thanx for taking time out to read this post, i have talked about my problem to friends and family and because i always mention it, i think everyone is getting bit tedious about it.
I do generally think I have a problem, a very big problem, Im 25 with great friends, great family, got a good career and think i have met the girl of my dreams, I been going out with her for 7 months and things are great, we tell each other how much we love each other, we treat each other with kindness and respect so on the surface i should be the most happiest man in the world, but im not, i think about even the littlest things in life and worry unnecessary, one of my main problems is that when im with my girlfriend and we are in public, I hate it when other guys stare at her, i dont mind people glancing because it is normal but i find it very rude and disrespectful if a guy stares at a girl next to her boyfriend, she is very attractive so i guess you lot are going to say learn to live with it but its really really hard, then i think like what if one day im walking with her and a car full of blokes just winds their window down and be pervy with her, i know i couldnt control my self and would get into a fight with them, i dont go clubbing with my girl, luckily for me she is not into clubs but i feel like if i go to a club with her, the minute i leave her, there will be a pervert who will go and try to dance with her or even worse grope her, i just hate thinking like this, im so in love with her, all i want is to be happy forever but this fact i hate happens nearly every day, i observe these pervs stare and leer at women everyday and then imagine someone could be doing it to my girl, any advice or comments would be appreciated, just to add im not an insecure person, i am a confident person but i just dont like disrespect or perverts.
thanks a lot