leo1

hi guys,

Thanx for taking time out to read this post, i have talked about my problem to friends and family and because i always mention it, i think everyone is getting bit tedious about it.
I do generally think I have a problem, a very big problem, Im 25 with great friends, great family, got a good career and think i have met the girl of my dreams, I been going out with her for 7 months and things are great, we tell each other how much we love each other, we treat each other with kindness and respect so on the surface i should be the most happiest man in the world, but im not, i think about even the littlest things in life and worry unnecessary, one of my main problems is that when im with my girlfriend and we are in public, I hate it when other guys stare at her, i dont mind people glancing because it is normal but i find it very rude and disrespectful if a guy stares at a girl next to her boyfriend, she is very attractive so i guess you lot are going to say learn to live with it but its really really hard, then i think like what if one day im walking with her and a car full of blokes just winds their window down and be pervy with her, i know i couldnt control my self and would get into a fight with them, i dont go clubbing with my girl, luckily for me she is not into clubs but i feel like if i go to a club with her, the minute i leave her, there will be a pervert who will go and try to dance with her or even worse grope her, i just hate thinking like this, im so in love with her, all i want is to be happy forever but this fact i hate happens nearly every day, i observe these pervs stare and leer at women everyday and then imagine someone could be doing it to my girl, any advice or comments would be appreciated, just to add im not an insecure person, i am a confident person but i just dont like disrespect or perverts.
thanks a lot

Earthmother1970

Do you trust your girlfriend?

leo1

yes i trust her with all my heart, its other man thinking they got a chance with her or if ever they sweet talk her or anything like that i dont trust

Earthmother1970

Does it bother her that these other men are starring at her or does hse even notice?

leo1

i think what bothers her is my reaction and that it affects me, i dont think she does notice.

Earthmother1970

Does she dress in a manner you find inappropriate? Too revealing or attention grabbing?

leo1

no not at all, i mean she is very beautiful what ever she wears but she never dresses inappropiate or attention grabbing, i just think guys every where are automatically wired to look at girls, but there is a difference between admiration and staring, i dont know, maybe im the paranoid one, i got a short temper so i tend to stare back at these people and willing to start anything, the bottom line is, i think all this is making my girlfriend very uncomftorable when we are out, but sometimes we could be out and have the best time because there werent be any of these weirdos out there! thanks for replying!