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Old 04-07-2012, 01:45 PM   #1 (permalink)
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So last night Morrigan and I are laying in bed. She is feeling somewhat down on getting older and she says her body isn't what it used to be. I agree and tell her I love her body now more that I ever have and the changes she complains about make me want her more every day. Then I start to sing "Your Body is a Wonderland" by John Mayer. She sits up and says "how did you know that's what I was thinking of!" I told her it just popped into my head.

Does that happen to anyone else? Do you and your spouse just seem to be connecting on another wavelength sometimes? I love it when that happens.
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Old 04-07-2012, 01:51 PM   #2 (permalink)
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So last night Morrigan and I are laying in bed. She is feeling somewhat down on getting older and she says her body isn't what it used to be. I agree and tell her I love her body now more that I ever have and the changes she complains about make me want her more every day. Then I start to sing "Your Body is a Wonderland" by John Mayer. She sits up and says "how did you know that's what I was thinking of!" I told her it just popped into my head.

Does that happen to anyone else? Do you and your spouse just seem to be connecting on another wavelength sometimes? I love it when that happens.
It happens to me and Mr. T quite a bit. ,He'll say what I am thinking or vice versa..but one thing thats never happened to me is to have him singing a John Mayer song to me in bed. I'm jealous of Morrigan.
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Old 04-07-2012, 02:46 PM   #3 (permalink)
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The W and I are always finishing each others sentences. Then we start cracking up laughing
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There have been many times when I have called my wife and it goes straight to VM only to look at my phone and see I missed her call at the exact same time. Wierd.
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Old 04-08-2012, 04:55 AM   #5 (permalink)
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Sometimes my husband (loooove I can call him that now!) knows what's going on in my head before I do. He.knows why something upsets me or bothers me even though I'm very intuitive and in touch with myself generally.

Having said that he has come up with some BIZARRE things but they have been taken in good humour!
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Old 04-09-2012, 01:30 AM   #6 (permalink)
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My Hubby and I laugh a lot even though we are depressed. Well, he is waaay more depressed than I am. I am just a goof ball. We leave the radio on the local rock station in the bird room (I have four large parrots) so sometimes we can hear the songs. EVERY SINGLE DAY we hear "Welcome to the Jungle," "Sweet Child of Mine," "Patience," and "Paradise City." We make it into a contest as to who catches it first. If he is in the car, and any of the songs come on, he will actually call me!
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Old 04-09-2012, 02:06 AM   #7 (permalink)
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We do this too, both in terms of timing and meaning. It's wonderful because it strengthens our bond because we feel that we are so deeply connected that we can't intellectually fathom it. Little everyday things like that are what have me falling in love with him over and over and over.
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Happened again last night. My neck was killing me but I never let her know if I have a physical issue. Later I was sitting at the computer and she came up behind me and started massaging my neck in the exact place that it hurt.
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Yes little things like that happen to me and my wife but during the time I kicked her out for the EA she was having , I was at work and I knew something was terriblely wrong with someone I was very close to,I just could'nt put my finger on it.My Mom? No did'nt feel right,Dad? Not him either.I had such a strong feeling it was my WW,
sure enough she was trying to find someone to take her to the mental hospital,she was breaking down big time.I cant explain it, was just such a powerful feeling that came over me.I called her and talked her down,told her to meet me at our house,we went and got all her stuff from her loser sisters house and got her back home. : )
For awhile she kept insisting someone called me and told me about her breakdown.Is was just a huge feeling I had that she was in big trouble,still freaks me out and gives me goosebumps sometimes.
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All the time! I'll think something and he'll say it, or we'll say something at the same time.
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I think the brain cells of couples in love morph.
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Old 04-10-2012, 03:20 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Happens to H and I all the time. We finish each others' sentences, say what the other is thinking, call at the same time, etc. When he's at work (gone a month at a time), occasionally I'll have a 'bad' moment where I'm missing him more than usual.....next thing I know he calls. Amazes me every time!!!!!

And we sometimes laugh @ the silliest things..... in those moments, if anyone could hear our conversation, they'd think we both lost our marbles....of course, this makes us laugh even harder!! Lol!!

With some of the serious issues we all face these days, Humor is a welcome reprieve!! Laugh it up!
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