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Old 04-09-2012, 10:30 PM   #16 (permalink)
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I wish he'd take better care of himself so that I could have him around longer.
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Old 04-10-2012, 07:29 AM   #17 (permalink)
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I go on about my husband ALOT on here, he is near the perfect man for me. But come on, there is always something that can be improved.... What I would change... if I could wave a magic wand, I would want him to FEEL more lustful...instill that sweet urging sex drive he had in his 20's (even though back then he put it down)... oh yeah - that would be heaven to take advantage of right now.

I don't like how men slow down as they get older, kinda a sad trick on the sexes as some of us women feel like we are just getting started. I wish he was chasing me around needing to do it twice a day- I think that would be sweet!
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Old 04-10-2012, 07:51 AM   #18 (permalink)
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I'd want my wife to desire me the way I desire her. That would resolve the one issue we have (at least from my side!) regarding frequency!

Other than that, she's darn near perfect!
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I wish he'd be more open sexually. I need some adventure...I think I was an explorer in another life.
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I wouldn't change anything she is wonderful, even when she is mad, it turns me on. I love it when she is on top of me growling at me. and I still chase her around, I am just a little slower now, but I can still catch her.
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I wouldn't change anything she is wonderful, even when she is mad, it turns me on. I love it when she is on top of me growling at me. and I still chase her around, I am just a little slower now, but I can still catch her.
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I wouldn't change anything she is wonderful, even when she is mad, it turns me on. I love it when she is on top of me growling at me. and I still chase her around, I am just a little slower now, but I can still catch her.
I don't know if you realise it but your wife is something of a celebrity here...I love reading her posts. She's got it together!!
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That he would love me in the manner that he used to--the TBI and stroke took away more than his ability to remember.

How would that make my life happier....see above, enuff said.
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I am with Toffer. I would like her to desire me as much as I do her..
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His temper. He loses it over little things--computer glitches, bad drivers, forgetting things, household repairs.

How would my life be happier? I would like the peace and quiet. After all these years I have still not figured out how to not get upset at his over-reaction to everyday problems.
Exactly the same here. He has a temper that was made worse by his head injury overseas. We've been together 2 years and I'm still trying to not let a lot of things get to me. I'm working on it though. Other than that he's perfect the way he is.
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Endless energy - much of my wife's unhappiness disappears when she gets into her manic phase. I want her to be happy all of the time!
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I am with Toffer. (
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at first i thought you meant you were 'WITH' toffer
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I think she only pretends to have her stuff together to make the rest of us look really bad...*snif*


JK, SA, luv u.
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SA is pretty awesome
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SA's husband, as in SimplyAmorous?
Yes, that is my husband. He knows I enjoy TAM very very well... I am always talking about some question, I've read things to him, my earlier threads, I read him every reply I got - about him! I enjoy getting "his take" on different issues too, all food for thought.

Then yesterday on a whim he was up for signing up here, so I jumped on that!! In the rush of the moment, what better name than that...I doubt he will post much , he is not the writer type, often saying he doesn't like to think. We couldn't be anymore different on that one!!

When It asked him to give some details about himself...in the Profile page- he paused for a time then said... "I am screwed up... I am loving & compassionate but I don't like people"... I almost fell off my chair , then our 10 yr old started laughing cause we were laughing so hard. That just didn't sound good. A writer he is not. But a few tid bits here & there, his opinion, at least he is up for it. I am tickled.
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