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Old 04-09-2012, 03:57 PM   #1 (permalink)
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If you could change JUST ONE THING about your spouse what would that be. If a genie were to grant you this wish, what would you wish for? And how happier would that make your life?
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marital status......for free.....
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Old 04-09-2012, 04:15 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Huh, I've been sitting here thinking since you posted and I've got nothing. I guess that puts things in perspective. Maybe I'm the problem?
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I honestly have nothing. She is everything that I want.
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Not 1 thing. She is perfect the way she is.
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Nothing that comes to mind... I like him the way he is.
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I would've changed the fact that she gave up on us, other than that I loved everything about her
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Old 04-09-2012, 05:28 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Gee that's a tough one.

It's between the financials, or his smoking. I've learned to live with both.

Probably the smoking, becuase he'd be so much healthier.

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His temper. He loses it over little things--computer glitches, bad drivers, forgetting things, household repairs.

How would my life be happier? I would like the peace and quiet. After all these years I have still not figured out how to not get upset at his over-reaction to everyday problems.
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I would change my belief in alien abductions and Bigfoot. Why? I still believe in Bigfoot without proof. I beeline in alien abduction because I have proof. They have taken the woman I loved and replaced her with a 100% selfish woman. I would change her worldly ways so that people mattered more than things.
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She would have as big a sexual appetite as mine. She likes sex just not as often as I. Other than that she's practically perfect in every way.
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If Mary Poppins fncked like a banshee when she was turned on then... You betcha.
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If you could change JUST ONE THING about your spouse what would that be. If a genie were to grant you this wish, what would you wish for? And how happier would that make your life?
I change him physically into more my type. I think he's sweet and really my joy in life, but yeah I'd change up a few things here and there, or only one if that's the rule.
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I'd like to share a bottle of wine with him. He doesn't like wine and it affects his sinuses. We've tried the non-preservative wines etc but he doesn't enjoy the taste anyway.

In saying that, he's not a big drinker. And this is something I like about him. So... I just made my wish pointless. I guess the answer would be nothing. Anything I'd change would mean something else about him would be different. I'll take him as he is.
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