04-10-2012, 07:39 PM
Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: My side of the street
| | Re: Sexless relationship
Originally Posted by salihulu
So there is no way to change this situation?
ABSOLUTE AND UNEQUIVOCALLY ... NO! It isn't the "situation" you want to change, it is him. Believe this: there is not a single human being on this planet who has the power to change another human being, short of putting a gun to someone's head and threatening them with imminent death.
He probably has an eating addiction, or else he is very depressed and trying to self-medicate with food. Regardless, all you can do is suggest counseling. If he refuses, I would suggest you leave ASAP.
You have this one short, precious life. Quit wasting it trying to change someone else.
Take care of yourself. You are all you have.
I refuse to make anyone a priority in my life who considers me nothing more than an option.
You can't start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one.