General Relationship DiscussionAlthough anyone can post anywhere on Talk About Marriage, this section is for people interested in general relationship and marriage advice.
CONGRATULATIONS, CharlotteMarie!
Congratulations on your upcoming wedding in three (3) days!
I'm sorry your future mother-in-law is such a pill!
Living with her will be sheer, unadulterated HELL, but you will persevere because your true love with your fiance will triumph over all the evil in the world!
...that's what you're looking to hear, isn't it?
Why do you even come on these boards? You ask for advice and then snipe at every piece of advice given to you. This is not the first thread of yours I've read but, hopefully, it will be the last.
Now if I remember correctly, according to you: you are 17yo, you quit going to school in 5th grade, you said you have learned everything you need to know in life already, you met the love of your life less than 1 year ago, and you're getting married in 3 days. Oh, and you're seeking lots of advice, but don't want to listen to any.
So, apparently, you're here just to feel good about yourself and your upcoming marriage in three (3) days. So:
CONGRATULATIONS, CharlotteMarie!
Congratulations on your upcoming wedding in three (3) days!
I'm sorry your future mother-in-law is such a pill!
Living with her will be sheer, unadulterated HELL, but you will persevere because your true love with your fiance will triumph over all the evil in the world!
Go have a nice wedding in three (3) days.
Go have a nice honeymoon camping with or without MIL.
Go enlighten the world with your perceptive insights into relationships founded on your deep understanding of human nature and your vast experience in the adult world.
Or, just go. Go away.
CONGRATULATIONS, CharlotteMarie!
Congratulations on your upcoming wedding in three (3) days!
I'm sorry your future mother-in-law is such a pill!
Living with her will be sheer, unadulterated HELL, but you will persevere because your true love with your fiance will triumph over all the evil in the world!
...that's what you're looking to hear, isn't it?
Why do you even come on these boards? You ask for advice and then snipe at every piece of advice given to you. This is not the first thread of yours I've read but, hopefully, it will be the last.
Now if I remember correctly, according to you: you are 17yo, you quit going to school in 5th grade, you said you have learned everything you need to know in life already, you met the love of your life less than 1 year ago, and you're getting married in 3 days. Oh, and you're seeking lots of advice, but don't want to listen to any.
So, apparently, you're here just to feel good about yourself and your upcoming marriage in three (3) days. So:
CONGRATULATIONS, CharlotteMarie!
Congratulations on your upcoming wedding in three (3) days!
I'm sorry your future mother-in-law is such a pill!
Living with her will be sheer, unadulterated HELL, but you will persevere because your true love with your fiance will triumph over all the evil in the world!
Go have a nice wedding in three (3) days.
Go have a nice honeymoon camping with or without MIL.
Go enlighten the world with your perceptive insights into relationships founded on your deep understanding of human nature and your vast experience in the adult world.
Or, just go. Go away.
Uhm no that's NOT what I'm wanting to hear. In fact, it's one of the last things I want to hear at this point. I don't know what your problem is but seriously, calm down. I haven't, what you say "sniped" at anyone except for the @SSHOLES who were attacking me on here. You can go away and stop with your complaining. If you want to complain, make a thread of your own and complain in it. This is pointless. I came on here for advice, not for people to f*cking completely go crazy on me and treat me like sh*t. Goodbye. And leave me alone. And FYI, NO, I've KNOWN HIM LONGER THAN A DAMN YEAR. Why does it matter how long ago I met him? People can fall in love in seconds, TIME DOESN'T MATTER when it comes to love you illiterate fool! Go away and stop looking for people to harass, mock and be mean too. This is a place to HELP people, not to push them further and further down.
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I would suggest to our members that if you don't have direct and respectful advice to give to the OP on her two threads, that you not respond at all.
I would also suggest to the OP that if you don't like the advice you get from members you use the ignore function. I would also suggest you tone down the language.
Well, almost everyone is responding to your only question about whether your upcoming situation is healthy with a resounding "Yes!". So now the question back to you is "What are you going to do about it?"
Ok, so I checked out your profile, it says you're 17...how old is your fiance?
If you need to save money, then you'll just have to suck it up and live with your mother inlaw until you get save some money.
BUT, in my honest opinion you should look into an education and better yourselves before getting married. You will both be completely different people by the time you're 25 and someone will most likely outgrow the other and become incompatible.
You might not be rushing, but I think you're making a mistake. If you love each other, you will wait...
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