growtogether

With all the comment here I think you should get the message....
it is important to know why you want to marry the guy....Do you just want to marry him because you are in a hurry, or you have some important reasons behind this....

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legalgirl91

I'll let you guys know how it turns out. Since I talked to him and apologized him for coming off like a controlling, manipulative brat, the past week has been a lot better.
@growtogether: I want to marry him and not anyone else, and I realize now that my time line excuse for trying to rush things makes me come off like I want to just marry anyone so that I can do things "on time". I'm going to have to just go with the flow here...once I cooled off and started really thinking about what it would be like to lose him and start over, I realized that's not an option for me. Obviously if I'm coming to you guys in two years with the same issue with the same guy, it maybe be time to re-evaluate. But he's worth the wait for now.

Thanks again for the reality check, guys!

growtogether

Awesome! You came out of this with a new perspective! Good for you, keep in touch with us!

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